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I originally started this site for Daniel back in February of 2001. At that time he was five years old. It was a compilation of notes received from Daniel's father, Joe, and those updates turned into about 13 pages of information! At that time Daniel was hospitalized to determine if he was a candidate for a kidney transplant. A search was on for a donor, and it appeared one was located. However, the doctors felt Daniel improved so much during the course of this hospitalization, that he was discharged home -- to put off the inevitable as long as possible, and to give Daniel an opportunity to grow as much as possible. Things were relatively quiet for the past few years, although they made many, many trips to Boston for check-ups and reevaluation. And then things began to deteriorate, and it became very apparent that the time was drawing near.

Previously, many of you wrote wonderful messages of hope and encouragement, and offered your prayers for Daniel. Literally thousands of people left messages for Daniel and his family. It was so heartwarming!

It is now four years later, and it appears that the time is very, very close for Daniel to recieve a kidney from a dear family friend who has been approved as a donor. (Note: A complication developed and this donor was recently ruled out - a blow to the family, and to the donor herself.) I am at this time "reviving" this site -- to reacquaint those of you who were taking this journey with Daniel a few years ago, and to introduce Daniel to those of you who are just starting the journey with him. We're in for the ride of our life, folks!

First and foremost, keep Daniel and his family in your prayers. Pray also for the donor. And pray for the team of physicians and surgeons and technicians and all the caregivers who are and will be involved in Daniel's care. Please take time to follow the "journey" by reading the updates on the pages I will be adding to this site as the days go on.

Oh, and by the way, Daniel was pretty young when I first met him, and he was a big Scooby Doo fan then -- and so I had all sorts of Scooby Doo graphics on the page. He's "graduated" to video games, so that is going to be the theme for the pages this time. (Smiling)  

This site is another compilation of notes from Daniel's father, Joe, of Daniel's journey to his new kidney. The most recent information will always be at the bottom of the page. Welcome back to those of you who were with us then, and welcome aboard to all of you who are learning about Daniel for the first time. Oh -- and do feel free to leave messages of encouragement for Daniel and for his family in the guestbooks provided below! They are read -- every single one of them!

January 9, 2005 - URGENT UPDATE

I received this poignant note from little Daniel's father, Joe, yesterday, definitely some bad news in it – and with his permission am sharing it you. It is not all hopeless, but at the moment it seems there are some really big hurdles in their path … not the least of which is some physical assistance. First and foremost, Joe is asking for prayer for guidance and wisdom in making the right decisions for Daniel and his family. So, if you would please keep them in your prayers, I’d be grateful. Then, if you could pass this along to praying friends and relatives and prayer groups and organizations … anyone you feel would be willing to pray and/or offer some physical assistance. Joe is quite willing to take email questions and responses, and his email address is jreid3@nycap.rr.com.

Here is Joe’s letter:

Hi Sue ,

I am really sorry for waiting for so long to do this, but after talking to you last I could see that you already had your hands full and didn’t want to burden you with my troubles, but things have become very desperate now and I find myself at a loss for what to do.

I am hoping you will be able to forward this to as many people as possible or answer me back as to your advice on a God-course.

As you know from our last conversation Daniel’s kidney functions have almost completely stopped and he is close to going back on dialysis. I thought we were going to be able to avoid this because we had a donor and were going to go through with the transplant as soon as things were arranged. The doctors wanted to do some repeat test on the donor to make sure everything was still good from her end, and I got the news yesterday that her test came back bad and they feel it is no longer feasible to consider her as a donor. They wouldn’t say exactly what they found, only that they couldn’t really discuss it with me for confidentiality reasons. I fully understand and respect that and believe that God has had other plans all along. (I just wish He would give me a hint as to what they are (lol) because I am very dumbfounded right now.) The doctors will be notifying her doctor this coming Monday as to their feelings, and once he confers they will notify me and the Northeast Donor Center that Daniel be placed on the urgent donor list and from there all I can do is hope and pray that something comes through .

It saddens me greatly to think that someone must die in order for my son to live. I asked about the possibility of looking for another living donor and they feel that there is not enough time to go through the testing process, that he has a better chance of receiving a kidney from the cadaver list and to save the living donor for when he gets older and needs his second transplant.

I will be on-call and must be ready to go if called as soon as I get word from Boston next week. My mom will be keeping Michael with her until Daniel is on his feet. I did have a place to stay in Salem, New Hampshire, and still might depending on the timing. However, I don’t really feel that it will be the best place for Daniel at this time due to so many people in and out of there with their teenage boys and all of their friends coming over, especially this time of year with the colds and coughs. Considering Daniel’s suppressed immune system to keep his body from rejecting his new kidney if or when he gets one, I need to minimize his outside contacts.

I AM SENDING OUT AN URGENT PRAYER REQUEST FOR DANIEL.

I need all the help I can get. I need the Lord’s guidance on what the best thing for me to do is. I am in such a financial bind. As you know I had to leave my job to stay home and take care of both of my boys. I have surely got my hands full and need guidance on what God wants me to do.

It's a really hard thing for me to swallow my pride and ask for financial help Sue. But this is not for me it is for my boys.


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I hope you can get these pictures I am trying to send . One is from this fall with the boys in a leaf pile, and the other is from a few weeks ago when our long lost dog Sadie came to visit us after a year of being gone. You can pretty much tell by the change in Daniel’s face as to the drastic decline he’s experienced.

Hope to hear from you soon and hope everything is well with you. Love ya - Joe


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January 10, 2005 - URGENT UPDATE

Hi Sue - I don’t have much time at the moment so I will make this very brief. I just got off the phone with Boston Children’s, and I was informed that they cannot put Daniel on the urgent list because one and possibly two of his blood readings make it impossible for him to receive a new Kidney at this time! His phosphates are way too high, and we are still waiting on his P.T.H. which takes several days to come back (parathyroid hormone) If it is elevated like it was last month then he cannot receive a new kidney because it could cause calcium complications with the new Kidney resulting in kidney failure. He will not be considered for a transplant at this time if this is too high. I have two options. We can change the medication he has been taking to control his P.T.H. or put him on hemodialysis. I have to wait until Thursday to find out what his P.T.H. reading is. At that point we will decide what to do.

I would greatly wish for everyone to pray for his blood readings to improve and get him well enough without having to go on dialysis. He is such a sweet, good little boy and is going to be going through enough without that.

I have received several inquiries about the Daniel Reid fund. I may have my parents overlook the fund. The previous account is still open. I do not wish the funds to be sent directly to me. I want them to be placed into the account in Boston, so it will be available for when he needs it most. In the meantime I will make due here the best I can. I'll get that information to you ASAP, after I talk to my folks and my friend in NH who previous handled the fund.

Please, everyone, pray for our gracious and merciful Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, to cleanse Daniel’s blood as He cleanses our souls of our sins and wrong doings -- as only He can do -- and fill Daniel’s heart with joy and happiness Please make him not worry and to feel well. I know it will work if we all pray together. Love you, Sue - Joe

February 1, 2005 - Note from Joe -- Daniel has been feeling fairly good, hasn't had to leave school early for the past week! This Friday they go to Boston Children's and hopefully will find out if Daniel's readings are down so that he can be placed on a donor's list.

Good news! Joe's father will be managing donations. Joe said there's no one on this earth he trusts more than his own father, so he's happy his dad is willing to do it. Any donations, therefore, can be sent to the following:



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**UPDATE** February 3, 2005 - Please if you could have everyone say a special prayer for Daniel tomorrow for our trip to the renal transplant clinic. I hope so much we can get him on the active list. He has been feeling much better the last few weeks. I think we all know why. If God thinks it's time for him to go on the list then it will happen. Joe ~~ The purer the love the purer the child.

**UPDATE** February 6, 2005 - Just a quick update on Daniel. The trip to Boston was a mess with Daniel coming down ill the night before and vomiting several times on the way there. I was thinking that his feeling better these last few weeks was a sign he was improving but now I feel as though God had just given us a little break and by him getting sick like this was a good way to show the doctors in Boston how thing really are. I was so worried that his blood work was so bad that I stayed locally until I knew what his critical blood counts were. Things are bad, but his potassium only went up a little so we did not have to treat him for his potassium being to high.

The good news was that they feel due to his blood counts and his overall failing health they will more than likely place him on the high priority list as soon as Thursday. We still have to wait for the phosphates and P.T.H. to come back, which wont be back until Thursday. I really feel that with how consistent I have been monitoring him and staying right on top of him everytime he puts a bite of anything in his mouth that everything will be a go as of Thursday.

The hair on the back of my neck has been standing up and for some unexplained reason ( God working ) my brain and body has shifted into high gear. In other words IT'S TIME!!!!!

I received some very promising news from the head of Nephrology at Children's Hospital. He informed me new laws that were passed in November and became affective in January that takes organs that were previously unavailable to children and places those organs in the donor pool for children on the high priority list. That is great news for us. He went as far as saying that a lot of children who have been waiting for sometime now should all be receiving transplants across the country. I was totally unaware of this law and have not found any information about it yet . He also went as far to say that he feels very comfortable with being able to decline ,or pass up organs for Daniel in order for him to receive a better match. He said that an older person's organ such as someone in their 50's or 60's who donates their organs will more then likely not be placed into a child now. They will use that organ for an adult within the same age range who has been waiting and use a kidney from a healthier younger person for Daniel. The doctor really seems very positive about the changes and said that a lot of children that were farther down on the list will all be moved up. He did say that there are a few children in the northeast area that are higher on the list than Daniel who are now in a life and death situation who will of course be first in line. Everyone should pray that those poor little one will get another chance at life, and soon.

It is so hard at times to live this life. But I feel as though God has given me new strength lately . Once again I feel ready to take this on . I just thank him for the coffee break he gave me -- LOL. Oh yes, another thing , The hospital has also finally got their transplant staff filled up and running. You know I had recently expressed my concerns about how the person who took over several jobs at once due to others moving on to other positions was overworked. Well there is a another new transplant coordinator, Clinical nurse, and support staff . One person had been doing it all and now she can go back to her administrative duties of transplant administrator. I think it is. Also she is in charge of the dialysis program . I am am a little relieved about this.

I have to e-mail the coordinator (who has actually given me her personal Phone #) and give her a list of my daily schedule with every phone # and address where I will be. I can no longer go anywhere without them being able to get hold of me. They suggested that I get a cell phone but I just don't see how I can do that. I am going to check into beeper services and see if anyone services this area. I was told it would be a real good idea if I had emergency bags packed and ready to go. So it looks like as of Thursday we will be placed at the top of the Database and must be ready at all times after Thursday the 10th.

Sue can you believe this is happening. It won't be long now. I am very nervous and very emotional right now.. ( Stay away from the coffee)

Over the last week I had such an incredible increase of energy, before I even went to Boston. I have no doubt that the Lord has been, and will continue to provide me with everything we need. I am sure of it. It might not be what I think I need but it will be what He Knows we need. No Matter what .. you know that the power of prayer is so so powerful . It directs the good, positive energy, that is the spirit of the lord, and breaks through all the negative things in our world. The more people praying the more powerful the Lord's spirit will be. It is time now, My little boy needs the will of God now , More then ever. Me and Kelley feel that we don't want to burden our friends near Boston due to serious health issues they're experiencing, if at all possible. They said we can still stay there bless their hearts but if anyone can contact me with a place for us to stay in the Boston area for up to two months I would really appreciate it. If ever we needed help, Sue, the time is now. If there is any information I need to give you for Daniel's web page or if you have any suggestions please let me know . I have to get it in gear now. Joe and Family

**UPDATE** February 16, 2005 - Hi Sue, am in a real hurry, Daniel became very ill today so i took him to his pediatritian and we ran some blood work on him today. His blood counts ,all of them, have all gone up -- some of them significantly -- since our trip to Boston 2 weeks ago. The local Doc called Boston and the message was to monitor him closely. Well tonight he has become very very ill and won't stop vomiting. I just got off the phone with his doc in Boston and they want him there immediately, I am leaving now, 9:42 pm, and I am rushing him to Boston. I will be in touch when I can. Keep the prayers coming. Love ya Joe


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NOTE FROM SUE - Thursday, February 17th: Joe called tonight. The three hour drive took just a tad over two hours! Joe said there was little traffic on the road due to the hour, and he hit all the green lights. Little Daniel is now a patient at Boston Children's Hospital. Joe said they arrived about 2 a.m. and it wasn't until 4 P.M. (yes, that is 4 in the AFTERNOON) that they were able to find a bed for him. The hospital is full!

Daniel has been pretty quiet since they began an IV and medicating him for his ongoing nausea and vomiting. I even talked to Daniel, and his little voice sounded so sweet, but weak. I said, "So are you feeling better today than you did yesterday," and his honest little response was, "Well, not much but a little."

Joe said there is a team meeting tomorrow that will determine the next step. He is fairly certain they will start Daniel on hemodialysis at this point. The transplant itself may only be 2-4 weeks away, so he wouldn't have to be on dialysis too long. Whether Daniel will stay at Boston during this time, since he's on the donor list, Joe won't know until tomorrow.

Soooooooo, that's the latest. Some cards and a package have arrived at Daniel's grandpa's home, and they will be bringing them to him on Saturday (his birthday) -- I'm sure Daniel will be so excited. For those of you who have been following Daniel for the past four years, you may recall that he spent his birthday at the hospital four years ago, too. Something about the month of February for this little guy!

After I hear from Joe tomorrow, I'll send another note out. I told Daniel that I loved him, and he said, "I love you, too." Then I said, "And I want you to know that I am praying for you," and he said, "That's nice." And then I said, "And lots and lots of other people are praying for you, too." His voice got excited, and he said, "That's REALLY nice, thank you!"

Joe is grateful, as well, for all the prayer support.

Friday add-on: Joe called to say Daniel was being discharged for home. He is on the donor list -- that is GOOD NEWS. And he has to return every Friday to Boston Children's until a donor kidney is found. More details probably later today after Joe gets home and Daniel is settled.

**UPDATE** February 18, 2005 (12:05 AM CST) -- Hi Sue, We were discharged around 3:45 today just in time to catch rush hour. I went to our friends' home in N.H. to see how Daniel was going to do, and to wait for the traffic to clear up. I left to come home around 6:30 but the traffic was real bad. Then it finally dawned on me why., I realized that it is winter break for the schools in the area and everyone was headed to the ski slopes. I seemed to take forever to get home and Daniel got sick again and vomited once. So there I was again wondering what to do out in the middle of the Green mountains of Vermont with no signal on my cell, in a snow squall at 10:30 at night. I was very reluctant to leave Salem at all I wish I stayed there, but Daniel wanted to come home for his birthday especially knowing he had cards and a package at his grandparents house. I stayed where I was for a little while to wait and see if he vomited again but he didn't. I shouldn't have given him anything to eat before I left but he was hungry.

It is so ironic that for a long time now it has been very hard to get Daniel to eat anything and he is never hungry , but every time he vomited over the last few days within minutes he complained that he was so hungry. But sadly I cant give him much to eat because he feels nauseated every time he eats. They gave him some meds through an I.V. that worked real well for him and he kept everything down in the hospital even 15 Hours after they stopped giving it to him.

Boy am I tired. I am heading to bed in a minute but wanted to let you know we are home for now. Very reluctantly I might add. I am so worried about him . I do not like the idea of being so far away from Boston. I have very mixed feelings about our decision to not start him on dialysis. We came very close to starting but after a good conference with everyone involved we decided to try and wait a little longer. The reason being is that he is still producing urine. one of his doctors told me that Daniel has the highest blood counts they have ever seen in a child how is still producing urine. So this means his blood pressure is somewhat stable as he is still able to regulate his fluids as long as he doesn't keep vomiting.

The real encouraging news is that he definitely as of this morning on the priority list with only a couple of emergency classified kids in front of him. That is for the whole north east not just Boston if I under stood it correctly. But a lot has changed recently on organ distribution and how children are placed on the waiting list that I am a little confused still.

Daniel is still very very ill. I am so worried about him. But as sick as he is he wanted to stop by Pooh Pas' house ( My Mom ) and read his cards and get his package. I'll tell ya it sure put a bright rosy smile on his face to open those cards but he insisted on waiting until the day of his birthday to open his package from Tennessee ( thank you) He received a very nice card with something special inside ( Postmarked from Houston ) with a note to him saying it was to take his dad out to lunch with . He looked at me and said "Dad I hope you're not hungry tomorrow. Can you take me to the store instead?" LOL I assured him that I believe that our dog Baloo had plenty of food he could share with me in case I was starving. He went to bed clinging to the money, sleeping with one eye open with the burglar alarm next to him ( that would be Baloo )

Well I have got to get some rest. My whole body aches from this tension. I went 46 hours without sleep . I did sleep a few hours last night with one eye open and one hand on him. I will never let him out of my grasp until he is over this and well on the road to a healthier and happier life. The doctors are pretty impressed with how far he's made it with his blood counts the way they are and still being able to produce urine. I have no doubt its all God's doing. It was about 4 years ago that Albany med started him on dialysis when his B.U.N was around 70 and his creatnine was 4.0. When I took him into the E.R. early Thursday morning his B.U.N. was 150 and his creatnine was 12.4. A kid his age and weight should be around 1.0 and B.U.N. no higher then 30. He's still not on dialysis. Now is that a miracle or what. I was told by Dr. Harmon that Daniel has no reserves left . We are clinging on the edge of dialysis and I must now be in Boston once a week and keep a close eye on him .

He will no longer be going to school probably for the rest of this year. I just hope and pray that something comes through soon. We do not want to have to put him on hemo dialysis. Kelley has all the bags packed and we are ready to go when we get that call. In the mean time all I can do is hope and pray and ask for everyone who hears his story to pray for him as well.

I thank everyone fro praying and especially that the kind people who made such a sick child smile on his Birthday. We love you much ~~ Joe, Kelley, Michael, Emily, Rebekah, and the sleeping Kid with money in his hand, having visions of a new Xbox game in his dreams with an angel keeping guard.


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**UPDATE** February 23, 2005 (3:18 A.M. CST) Hi Sue, Just thought I would let you know that Daniel is very ill again. If he is this way tomorrow I will call Boston and see what they want me to do. I have to go every Friday but i have to figure out how I am going to afford that. He started the vomiting all over again and is just laying there staring into space. The Lord will provide whatever I need I am sure .

I finally put up some pictures of us. It took me a few hours of resizing and editing and naming all the pictures , never mind deciding which ones to put up. If you like them feel free to put a link on Daniel's page so everyone can see them.

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If I have to go to Boston tommorrow (Wednesday) I will send you a note before I go. He is very bad off -- please ask everyone to pray for my little boy. Love, Joe

March 28, 2005 -- Sorry I havn't written but I figured you must be very busy. I just thought I'd drop a quick note to let you know we are still waiting for a kidney, and life has become almost unbearable.

Daniel is so sick and his blood readings are all over the place. His blood pressure is starting to get out of control as well. He has sores all over his body form skin irratations due to his B.U.N and creatnine being so high. His skin looks almost jaundiced. and he has scabs all over his face. He pretty much stays in bed most of the time. He does get up and seems playful for a few hours a day but then gets sick again as the day goes by. We are very stressed out and are hoping and praying something will come through soon.

We still are going to Boston every Friday and are haveing to adjust his medication on a wekly basis now. I had mentioned to you that he was third on the list behind to kids already on dialysis,and no one had recieved a transplant in , MAYBE OVER A MONTH. Well this past Thursday night both of the children in front of Daniel recieved a kidney from the same donor who just happened to be a universal blood type, so each kid got one of the kidneys. Thats all I was told besides Daniel now being NUMBER 1 on the list. So I am praying for his time to come and soon. I never imagined how this ordeal would consume us. We are all very drained and tired. My whole body aches from the stress.

I am growing weary from the trip to Boston every Friday, and it really is taking a toll on Daniel as well. If we make it until this Friday without a transplant I am thinking about packing enough clothes for a few days just so we dont have to go back and forth the same day. That's close to 8 hours round trip just driving never mind the hospital appointments. Last week we had to wait over two hours just to get blood work done.

Anyway I just thought I d let you know what's going on, andmaybe we can get the prayers going strong -- Daniel is really fading away -- its so hard to see him go through this. I'll talk to you later - Joe


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April 3, 2005 - I just thought I would drop a quick note. Daniel's condition is very bad . Still no transplant, and he is so sick now. He looks terrible and stays in bed most of the time. On our trip to Boston Friday his blood pressure was 155 over 98 . It's been slowly going up but no its just too high, so we are trying him on blood pressure meds for the first time. So the only thing we have under control now is his potassium and his P.t.h. We took a little tour of the hemodialysis unit on Friday so it looks like if we dont get the transplant soon we will be in Boston three times a week for dialysis very soon. If his condition gets any worse I may insist on it .

Anyway please keep the prayers coming his way . Prayer really does work. I have felt my spirits lifted in the past few days. I even laughed yesterday, It felt good to laugh again. I'll talk to you later -- Joe

**UPDATE** April 4, 2005 (10:29 A.M. CDT) -- Hi Sue, Not much time, Boston just called and there is a kidney available for either Daniel or the other child in line depending on who it matches better, They will be calling me back Before noon to let me know. If we are the match I am on the way ,right away, Bringing the laptop cindy gave us back in 2001 and will let you know the latest. Man am I freaking out. LOL. If anyone has been thinkng about praying for something, NOW WOULD BE A GOOD TIME!!!! I'll talk to you later. Love -- Joe

**AMENDED UPDATE** April 4, 2005 (11:07 A.M. CDT) I just got the call back and the docs gave the other child the kidney. I'm not sure where the other one went, or if there even was another one. I don't quite understand how and who makes the decision, but once again I was told today we are first on the list . This is the third time I was told this and three times Daniel was passed up. I dont get it. In the meantime none of us slept last night because of Daniel being up coughing and hacking and crying because he feels so lousy. He finally fell asleep around 6:30 this morning, but still continues to cough and hack. Maybe I will take him to the local Doc, its almost like he has pneumonia or something. Well let's keep praying something comes through soon. Love ya -- Joe

**UPDATE** April 5, 2005 (7:55 PM CDT)

A KIDNEY IS AVAILABLE!!
DANIEL IS ON THE WAY TO BOSTON AT THIS MOMENT TO RECEIVE IT
! --

Hi Sue, Dr Harmon just called and we have a kidney for Daniel. We are leaving here in 45 minutes. The kidney was not out of the donor when he called, and it has to be flown to Boston so the operation is schedueled for the wee hours of the morning. Please send this along and everybody please, please send all the prayers you can his way . Love you much and will be in contact. Love, Joe


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